This is great Darren Stehle — am sure an extended essay could be written on this, charting the changes that have happened and the impacts (large and small) on the gay community. Whilst I also don’t agree with everything ‘QuitGrindr’ has to say there is some truth to it, especially the commodification of sex and the push further and further towards the ‘gay ideal’ and having the perfect body etc. Thanks for writing and sharing this.